Frank Ocean Speaks on His Coming Out Letter

frank ocean Frank Ocean Speaks on His Coming Out Letter

After Frank Ocean’s now-famous Tumblr post, he’s kept his composure in the spotlight and stepped up to take on the difficult roles of both an inspirational figure and a breakout star. While he hasn’t spoken too much on his personal life, he opened up during a recent interview with GQ. Here’s what he said about his letter:

“The night I posted it, I cried like a fucking baby. It was like all the frequency just clicked to a change in my head. All the receptors were now receiving a different signal, and I was happy. I hadn’t been happy in so long. I’ve been sad again since, but it’s a totally different take on sad. There’s just some magic in truth and honesty and openness.

“Whatever I said in that letter, before I posted it, seemed so huge. But when you come out the other side, now your brain—instead of receiving fear—sees “Oh, shit happened and nothing happened.” Brain says, “Self, I’m fine.” I look around, and I’m touching my fucking limbs, and I’m good. Before anybody called me and said congratulations or anything nice, it had already changed. It wasn’t from outside. It was completely in here, in my head.”

On whether the label of “bisexual” applies to him, Frank responded:

“You can move to the next question. I’ll respectfully say that life is dynamic and comes along with dynamic experiences, and the same sentiment that I have towards genres of music, I have towards a lot of labels and boxes and shit. I’m in this business to be creative—I’ll even diminish it and say to be a content provider. One of the pieces of content that I’m for fuck sure not giving is porn videos.

“I’m not a centerfold. I’m not trying to sell you sex. People should pay attention to that in the letter: I didn’t need to label it for it to have impact. Because people realize everything that I say is so relatable, because when you’re talking about romantic love, both sides in all scenarios feel the same shit. As a writer, as a creator, I’m giving you my experiences. But just take what I give you.

“You ain’t got to pry beyond that. I’m giving you what I feel like you can feel. The other shit, you can’t feel. You can’t feel a box. You can’t feel a label. Don’t get caught up in that shit. There’s so much something in life. Don’t get caught up in the nothing. That shit is nothing, you know? It’s nothing. Vanish the fear.”

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  • josh

    wow

  • Biz

    truth

  • E

    hearhear! the man is always so eloquent

  • SK

    I don’t know if eloquent is the word I’d use seeing fuck and shit in the response multiple times lol. But he does do a good job of speaking his mind and conveying his feelings.

  • SK

    Also, I’m still bumpin Channel Orange. One of the best albums of the year, I can’t wait for more Frank Ocean material.

  • 4

    you guys should mention that the rest of this is over at interview GQ, its interesting

  • Confusion

    Second sentence. GQ link.