Guh, innocence lost is the saddest thing. One day you’re just sitting around, being the ultimate Gaga fan AND the ultimate Lana fan at the same damn time, then all of a sudden an old diss track surfaces, and it features Lana Del Rey taking shots at Gaga. Suddenly, things don’t seem so simple. Suddenly, everything is complicated. The song was probably never meant to be released, and Lana’s feelings have probably changed quite a bit since then, but the diss track left a lot of fans—specifically fans that like both Gaga and Lana—very confused, emotionally torn up, and conflicted about how to react.

Here are 35 people who really don’t know how to feel about Lana Del Rey dissing Lady Gaga: