We all struggle with how we feel about Bon Iver. Justin Vernon has come a long way from that storied cabin where he recorded For Emma, Forever Ago. Since then he’s become an indie superstar, which is a difficult positon to hold because “indie” and “superstar” don’t always work well together. Some people have turned on poor Justin, some have hoisted him up as one of music’s saviors, some have decided that he’s boring and that his emo, quavering falsetto is annoying, and some are just really confused. If you’re battling a love/hate relationship with Bon Iver, it’s okay—you’re not alone. Here are 25 people who have a complicated relationship with Bon Iver.